Packing for Confidence: What to Take on a Group Holiday with People You've Never Met

Heading somewhere new is always exciting. But when you add the fact that you'll be spending that time with people you're meeting for the very first time, the excitement (and the nerves) can shoot right up. Whether it's an organised trekking trip, a language course abroad or a spontaneous getaway arranged through a Facebook group, the key to a great trip is good preparation.

So what should you pack to feel relaxed, safe and… simply confident? Here's a checklist of things that will help you break the ice and handle whatever the trip throws at you.

1. Gadgets that bring people together (social icebreakers)

When you pack, think about things that naturally draw people in and make it easier to get to know each other. You don't have to be the life and soul of the party if you have the right ‘tools’ with you.

• Cards or a compact board game: Classic games such as Uno, Exploding Kittens or Dobble are always a hit on evenings in a mountain hut or guesthouse. Nothing breaks down barriers like a bit of friendly competition and a good laugh.
• A power bank with a few cables: Sounds mundane? When someone's phone dies on a hiking trail or in the middle of a city, your spare charge will make you the hero of the day.
• A bag of good snacks: Sharing food is the oldest ritual in the world. Bring out some local sweets or a bag of savoury snacks just when everyone's flagging, and you'll make friends instantly.

2. Mental and physical comfort (your safe zone)

Confidence comes from feeling comfortable. When nothing is pinching and you feel fresh, it's much easier to open up to others.

• Headphones (ideally noise-cancelling): Even though you're going to meet people, everyone needs a moment to themselves. Headphones send a clear signal: ‘I'm recharging right now’. They'll also shut out the noise on the coach or the snoring in a shared room.
• A ‘confidence’ washbag: On top of the usual essentials, add some chewing gum, a mini deodorant, dry shampoo and refreshing wipes. Knowing you can freshen up at any moment is a huge comfort.
• Layers and tried-and-tested shoes: A trip with new people is the worst time to break in brand-new shoes that could give you blisters after the first mile. Go for outfits you feel good in and that are, above all, practical.

3. Flexibility and an open mind

The most important thing you need to ‘pack’ takes up no space in your bag. It's your attitude.

Tip to get you started: When travelling with new people, let go of rigid expectations. Everyone brings their own story, habits and personality. Observe, listen and let yourself be surprised.

In a group of strangers it's easy to fall into the trap of pretending to be someone you're not, just to fit in. The truth is that authenticity is what draws people in most. As you pack your bag, remember you're going for an adventure – including the adventure of getting to know other people. Well-organised, sensible luggage gives you a solid base, so you can focus on what really matters: building new friendships that may well last for years.

Bon voyage!

No one to go on holiday with? See how our solo group holidays work, or check out our next departure: Lloret de Mar, 28 May – 3 June 2027.